The final step is here *drumroll please* and the step award goes to..SUPPORT!!
There comes a point in everyone's life where there has to be interaction with others. When you have sent your positive energy out into the world, and you've put you plans in order and executed them, what happens if you can't succeed on your own. Yes.. the mind can think it and the body can do it even with tools, but..what if you get sick, or found a roadblock to heavy for you alone to move, what then?
Your friends can help your plans along and more importantly they can make your plans fun. No man is an island. You can't do it all yourself.
It's not only your physical friends, that you can feel and touch, that will help you. For those of us who believe in a power higher than ourselves, that comfort can go a long way to making us feel like the world is at our fingertips. For those of you who don't believe that there are higher beings in the world (and I'm not talking UFO) then I hope you find that support you need, that cannot be filled by earthly beings.
Your support group has to be carefully chosen, I have always believed if I cannot be a leader, I will be neutral. (Will explain that in my next post, I think it warrants more than a paragraph.)
Your friends should always enhance your life, just like you should enhance theirs. You have to be a friend in order to have a friend.
But how does this fit the steps to having a better day, let's take the quick trot through the steps:
- Get up and say what up to the universe- be positive
- Think about your day- be prepared
- Don't panic and create a contingency plan- be focused
- Execute- follow through with your actions to match your words
- Support- having friends should enhance and help you with your plans
Get it yet? I hope so, these steps have helped me since I've been in the preschool, primary and secondary institutions of life and now that I'm in the university of life I find I need them more.
The days are becoming increasingly filled with joy and educational experiences, but the problems that arise impact us more as we get older cause we feel we should be able to handle them or be better able to protect ourselves.
When that is the case just stay positive, remain organized, never panic, let you actions speak and at the end of the day find the people who give you joy.
Here's to positive people!
Nothing beats the support of a loved one. Trust me on this one.
ReplyDeleteas one who is awesome, i owe my awesomeness ..... well to myself and my nakamas. Without them, i would be just awe ..... O_o and still be waiting for the other part. True Story.
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