You know..let's COMMUNICATE!
*round of applause* Don't listen to the lies..it's not easy and it's definitely not taboo.
Well, I should say communicating anything of worth, is not easy. So much comes into play..such as your level of comfort with the topic or person you will be communicating with, reasons for wanting or more importantly needing to communicate and or your ability to make yourself clear.
So your comfort... if you are a shy person, talking to your significant other (S.O) about sex, money, our family plans (kids etc) is not an easy conversation to have, but those are three major causes for failing relationships. Either someone isn't receiving their sexual satisfaction or you are not both on the same page in that department, one person has bad judgement with money or you may want children and your S.O doesn't or you may have children already and at logger heads about how to raise them.
If you don't become comfortable, things will never be said or understood and your relationship could very well be on the rocks.
Why would you need or want to communicate with other humans. In the work world and/or personal world, if you NEED to communicate its usually because some problem has arisen and nothing significant is being done to resolve it.
And finally if you talk with someone and they leave the conversation as confused as when they went in, then the message you are trying to convey, just didn't hit the mark.
Communication is such an integral part of people's lives, if you can't effectively execute communication, your world will be riddled by unnecessary problems. Might buy milk, when you were suppose to get juice, just an example of poor communication.
It can be the key to you being successful. When people can understand your position on issues, time is reduced, instead of running around in circles, you can start working on a solution.
Listening is also a big part of the communication process. There are always atleast two sides to any issue. So, you aren't getting enough physical contact out of your relationship, say so to your partner..then don't close off, LISTEN to the reply,wait for it to be completed before making a reply and you might find solutions.
The solutions process can be tedious, but anything worth achieving should never be too easy. It takes time, when you have communicated and the other person in the conversation as well...replay the important points...its the only way to ensure you are both on the same page...some experts call it...*drumroll* FEEDBACK!
Don't be lost in a daze, it is easy to find the light, communication can be the Energizer batteries you need for the flash light..
Just as that slogan says...Communication can keep your work and personal relationships going and going and going and....
Here's to positive people!
Well, I should say communicating anything of worth, is not easy. So much comes into play..such as your level of comfort with the topic or person you will be communicating with, reasons for wanting or more importantly needing to communicate and or your ability to make yourself clear.
So your comfort... if you are a shy person, talking to your significant other (S.O) about sex, money, our family plans (kids etc) is not an easy conversation to have, but those are three major causes for failing relationships. Either someone isn't receiving their sexual satisfaction or you are not both on the same page in that department, one person has bad judgement with money or you may want children and your S.O doesn't or you may have children already and at logger heads about how to raise them.
If you don't become comfortable, things will never be said or understood and your relationship could very well be on the rocks.
Why would you need or want to communicate with other humans. In the work world and/or personal world, if you NEED to communicate its usually because some problem has arisen and nothing significant is being done to resolve it.
And finally if you talk with someone and they leave the conversation as confused as when they went in, then the message you are trying to convey, just didn't hit the mark.
Communication is such an integral part of people's lives, if you can't effectively execute communication, your world will be riddled by unnecessary problems. Might buy milk, when you were suppose to get juice, just an example of poor communication.
It can be the key to you being successful. When people can understand your position on issues, time is reduced, instead of running around in circles, you can start working on a solution.
Listening is also a big part of the communication process. There are always atleast two sides to any issue. So, you aren't getting enough physical contact out of your relationship, say so to your partner..then don't close off, LISTEN to the reply,wait for it to be completed before making a reply and you might find solutions.
The solutions process can be tedious, but anything worth achieving should never be too easy. It takes time, when you have communicated and the other person in the conversation as well...replay the important points...its the only way to ensure you are both on the same page...some experts call it...*drumroll* FEEDBACK!
Don't be lost in a daze, it is easy to find the light, communication can be the Energizer batteries you need for the flash light..
Just as that slogan says...Communication can keep your work and personal relationships going and going and going and....
Here's to positive people!
Agree 100%
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